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Home | News & Society | Marriage Do as much housework as you can. Don't expect her to be thinking about love-making when she comes home to a messy house. Imagine her surprise and delight to arrive home to clean laundry, clean house and dinner made. Suddenly she will have time on her hands! The greatest libido buster for women is fatigue and this is especially the case for mums. If you can ease her load, you will be amazed by her added energy and zeal. But don't do all this just when you're thinking about love-making as she'll see straight through this shallow short lived strategy. Make this a habit and weekly ritual. Buy her an energy boosting supplement, preferably one which also contains a libido enhancer, and you'll both notice the difference. Romance her! And again, not just when you want sex! Make romance a way of life. Make it constant, not just once in a blue moon, or every wedding anniversary. Some people dedicate one night a month to date, that is, spend quality time together alone, without the kids. Maybe you could take her to a fine restaurant or pack a picnic lunch and take her somewhere peaceful. Do what she likes to do. Be spontaneous and fun. For example, after dinner, roll up your pants and tell her to kick off her shoes as you walk on the beach like young lovers. Laugh a lot. You'll feel younger and you'll make beautiful memories together. Most women love a man who is willing to step out of routine and be a bit crazy. Listen to her, really listen. You've probably heard the statistic that generally speaking men utter half the number of words of women in a single day. It's just the way we're made. It means that you'll have to listen twice as much, that's the bottom line! A very common complaint from women is that their husband doesn't listen, doesn't look at her when she speaks, has his attention half fixed on the television or newspaper. Be an active listener; this means responding with questions about her feelings and prolonging the conversation with genuine interest. Don't make the mistake of telling her the solutions to her problems: this is not actually what she wants to hear, she just wants you to listen to her and acknowledge how she feels about the situation. Send her messages. She'll love to know you're thinking of her when you're apart. She won't be able to help herself smiling when she receives a text, email, card or fax from you that reminds her of your love. Do it often. Let her know the qualities about her which you love and give her examples of things she said or did recently which you adore. If you're not good with words, never fear, your local newsagent has a wall full of greeting cards you can pinch ideas from! Perhaps you could send a card which contains an invitation to one of your date nights. Think of your marriage as being a natural extension of courting your sweetheart. The courting shouldn't stop after the ceremony. Cuddle her and enjoy being close to her without expecting anything sexual. One of the most frequent complaints I heard from women was that their husbands only showed them affection during love-making. That is a classic libido killer. It makes women feel used. Initiate the hugs and kisses in your marriage. Make sure you are clean and fresh though: when you come home from a fishing day she probably won't want a cuddle until you're showered! The best sex aids you can use are probably a toothbrush and aftershave. Remember dates which are important to her. This includes birthdays, anniversarys, Christmas, Valentines Day and the kids' birthdays. You might have to get a diary if you don't already have one! Don't wait til she mentions the occasion, you need to lead by getting in first with a card or gift. Why not get up early and arrange a special breakfast or other surprise for your sleeping beauty? Believe me, she will know if you forget and grab a rushed gift on the day of the event, and it won't be the same to her. She thinks that if you remember it, it must be important to you and if it's important to you so she must be important to you. Be a realist. There are times that it has been proven beyond doubt, that physically women can benefit significantly from a health supplement specifically designed for female libido enhancing. The natural herbal maca powder is one that has seemingly been around forever and stood the test of time, as well as shone out in many research studies as a female libido enhancer as well as for men. Many articles can be found that outline maca's origins, outstanding benefits and use. Men, this article does not contain every possible thing you can try to unlock the passion lying dormant in your wife. However, these are the main pointers I gleened after many years of relationship counselling, which seem to make a powerful difference in the behaviour of women. When it comes to libido enhancing, they really do work. Do you dare get started?! Article Source: http://www.articlewheel.com
Colin Johnson strongly recommends the age old maca powder as a female libido enhancer. The benefits are fantastic. Colin has been a relationship consultant and life coach to many, and father of five all in one lifetime!
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