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Home | Business | Home Based Business Did it ever occur to you that it was the better looking half of the pair that probably considered themselves very lucky to be with the person they were with? That unassuming woman and not–so-beautiful man represent people who know what they want and know that they deserve it. Their confidence comes from inside and is addictive as well as attractive, people like them and want to be around them. · What do you think that you deserve? · Are your thoughts and actions blocking the path to your good? · Are you faced with lack and limitation simply because you don’t think that you deserve financial freedom? · Do you have a Victim mentality? What is a Victim mentality? My dear husband describes this as your inner martyr. That part of you that gets pleasure out of thinking: “Poor me, I will never be pretty enough, skinny enough, smart enough. I’m just a waste of human DNA, someone please put me out of my misery”. The victim is your excuse for: · not getting the pretty girl or rich guy · coming up short on the promotion at work · not closing that prospect Just fill in the blanks on what you don’t deserve and why. If things are not going your way, you can just call in the Victim, and shed a few tears over your own ineptitude as you quit trying. The Victim in you survives by replaying your inner DVD of errors and missteps in your life thus far. If you would just unplug the DVD player and smite the Victim, you will finally be able to accept that you deserve more. I am going to use a celebrity as an example here: Britney Spears. I am sure you’ve heard of her. Here is a girl (a child really) who early on got everything that she wanted. But her Victim tells her everyday that this is not a life that she deserves; the Victim is judge and jury and causes her to make decisions on a daily basis that are guaranteed to prove this out. As I told you in the last section, we get out of this life exactly that which matches our expectations, and if you are expecting the worst you will get the worst. If your inner Victim insists that you don’t deserve any better – well, then you don’t. To gain small victories we must let go of our Victim mentality. Lose the Victim and gain a life of goodness and abundance. How do you let go of your Victim mentality? Well you have to put different thoughts into the compartments of your mind. Fill those spaces with thoughts of future successes small and large; don’t focus on your lack of funds, instead think about what you are going to do with all that money when it’s just sitting in your bank account; replace the words fat, chunky and overweight with thin, healthy, and svelte. In short, you must spring clean your mind and rearrange the furnishings so that the Victim becomes a homeless person. Turn off that DVD, stop living in the past. Look neither to the left nor the right, but stay focused on your desires, live in the moment secure in the belief that you deserve to live your best life. Article Source: http://www.articlewheel.com
Denise Porter, Life Style Mentor and Successful Entrepreneur, is helping many become the next success story. Whether you're looking to create an extra few thousand dollars per month, be an ex-corporate executive, or the next millionaire Mom, Denise can assist you to create a second stream of income and greater peace of mind. visit : Success
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